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Success In Life Comes From P?rsonal Development-Desire

Posted by mallton on November 30th, 2009

Personal development is key if you want to be successful in anything in life or in anything you want to accomplish. The first step is to have that strong desire because everything starts with you thinking and having that burning desire to achieve whatever you like and want from life. Self-improvement is the first step by working on yourself then you will change to become whatever person you aspire to be. So first you need to identify the problem you are facing which can be lack of motivation for example and by doing so you are going through the first step of self-improvement. You need to analyze that and figure a way to overcome that by creating a definite plan which you will follow daily until you have achieve what you want which is to be a well motivated person that can attack anything he wants anytime and win!

Second is to build the desire you need to achieve you goals. To do so you must think of what you want in life and write it down on a piece of paper and read it every morning and night before you sleep. By doing so you are putting that thought into your mind to build that burning and strong desire in your mind and self to achieve it no matter what happens and that you will overcome every single obstacle that comes you way. There is a saying by Napoleon Hill that I want to quote which goes like this “A thought backed up by a burning desire has a tendency of transmuting itself into its physical equivalent.” That means whatever you think and program into your head and with that you have the strong desire to back it up you can make it a reality!

Those are the few main steps to success that you should follow if you are looking and wanting to change your life for the best. There are many more tips and secrets to come so stay in touch.

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Who Are You? Misguided Blockhead or Masterful Wizard?

Posted by mallton on November 29th, 2009

Copyright (c) 2009 Valery Satterwhite

Who are you? Some say that a person is a product of his or her choices. Much like the causality dilemma of “Which came first, the chicken or the egg?” that evokes questions about life and how the Universe in general began, who you are can be rooted in a circular cause and consequence pattern of experience.

Or is it?

The answer is, it depends. It depends upon how you choose. Are you creating your choices or are your choices creating you?

The decisions you make, the actions you take and the results you experience are originated in how you think. The outcomes of your choices shape your thoughts which influence future decisions. If you don’t like what’s going on in your life you have the power to change how you think to create newer and better outcomes.

Let’s say you got fired. You walked into work one morning and was given an unexpected pink slip and was shown the door. At that moment you have a choice, you can blame your “idiot” boss, cuss out your co-workers or clients and make yourself feel better by telling yourself you don’t need that stinkin’ job anyway. Or you can recognize the moment as a learning opportunity, take a step back and examine why exactly you got fired.

If you choose to blindly attribute your misfortune to the acts of others you are left with no information to prevent the same unwanted experience from again happening. After some time you find another job only to be shown the door again a few months later. And the repeated pattern of experience continues. You become a resentful, bitter, perhaps depressed, person who can’t hold down a job and thinks your fate is in the hands of misguided blockheads.

Is this you? No. This is a person who lives life on autopilot, powerless to achieve an inner calling. It not who you came into this world to become. Nevertheless, the revolving door of bad experience after the other has, however, become your life experience as a consequence of the choice you made to blame others for the loss of your job. Your choices are creating who you have become. You have become the misguided blockhead.

What if you made a different choice? What if you examined why you initially got fired? You would discover what, specifically, lead to your termination. You would discover what errors in judgment you might have made, what signals you missed or didn’t act on, or what relationships you failed to cultivate. Armed with this new information, lessons learned, and better way of thinking you will make very different choices in your next job.

Is this you? Yes. It is the you in the process of discovering and expressing your full potential. This is who you came into this world to be, tapped into your personal power as the deliberate creator of your life experience. The question remains, which you are you expressing today? If you’re not sure, check in with how you feel. If your tired and frustrated your choices are creating you. If you energized and fulfilled, you are creating your choices. Like an masterful Wizard, you are the alchemist turning your passionate dream into a real experience.

“The unexamined life is not worth living.” - Socrates

By the way, the answer to which came first the chicken or the egg is, the egg. It has something to do with zygote cells, DNA, and an illicit tryst with a rooster.


Valery is an Inner Wizard Mindset Mentor & Coach who teaches people how to be the hero of their opportunity instead of the victim of circumstance so they can fully invest themselves in their creative endeavors. Clients also learn how to root out self-sabotaging behavior that can land them in the National Enquirer! Empower the Wizard Within http://www.InnerWizard.com Free tips!

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Express Yourself Through Dress

Posted by mallton on November 28th, 2009

When it comes to new styles and trends this century, it can sometimes be difficult to determine which fashionable styles are right for your body. You may completely rule out certain looks because you are worried a particular style will not suit you. It is important to have diversity in your closet and therefore, ruling out entire chapters within the fashion book is not a recommended idea. Try to have a little bit of everything. Experiment with different clothing styles and then you can more fully come to love yourself and the clothes you wear and feel completely confident in your choice of apparel.

According to Brittany Brown, a 21-year-old trusted fashion consultant for her friends, “Variety is key.” Brown believes that no matter what style you are going for, it is important to not get stuck in one particular look. Although one certain style may seem too “out there” for an individual, it is important to remember each fashion style can be adjusted to fit each person and become a look as distinct as the man or woman wearing it! Owning too many items of one color or cut will limit your look. When you look in your closet, do you see a lot of a particular color or a ton of the same thing, like t-shirts or polo’s? A majority of women have several different cuts of black blouses—perhaps it is because black is known for its slimming effects. Regardless of slimming features or not, we should all try to embrace many different styles, colors and cuts of clothing. Having diversity in your wardrobe allows you to come up with new looks daily.

Brown also believes that people need to like who they are and what they wear. “We all have favorite articles of clothing that we wear more than others. This is because we like the way they fit and look,” she said. But liking yourself and what you wear should not be applied to items of clothing in the sweats category. Liking who you are in what you wear means feeling spectacular and special in what you adorn. The clothes that fit awkwardly or constantly need adjusting do not often become our favorites. So when shopping, make sure to take a stop in the dressing room and try things on. If something about the way the item fits bothers you, don’t buy it! Do not get sucked into buying something and thinking you can change it or your body to make it work. It is easier to find a garment that fits your body appropriately now than buying an item for the future. It is never a good idea to buy a pair of jeans for motivational reasons. Many people keep items of clothes in their closet that serve as constant reminders that “I’ll look so good in that when I’ve dropped just 5 little pounds.”

Have you ever thought, “This just isn’t me,” when it comes to a certain outfit? You are not alone. Brittany Brown has heard many people say this, followed by, “I really like this particular style, but I could never pull it off.” Her opinion on this matter is that if you like something it is you—or at least a part of you. Clothes are one of the most observable ways to express your unique personality to others. If you like a style or article of clothing it is because it speaks to some part of you. You can be any style you want as long as you do it with confidence.

If you are considering trying a new style of dress, try it! You never know, you may give it a try, find you like it, feel confident and comfortable about yourself in it, and then that particular style will become you! Your confidence will convince others that it is who you are and over time, you will probably find many other styles that you can embrace and that will become part of you as well. And who knows, maybe you will inspire your friends to be a little bolder and braver in the future with their fashion as well.


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How to Tell When A Person is Lying - Don’t Be Fooled

Posted by mallton on November 27th, 2009

Knowing how to tell when a person is lying does not have to be an art. It is easier than you might think. A small amount of observance is basically all that is required from most people. Most all people who lie or is lying give off nearly the same reactions, symptoms or whatever you want to call it. These or just some subconscious involuntary things the body does on its on doing the so called lying process.

 One simple way how to tell when a person is lying is when asked a question they repeat the same question to themselves out loud. This is just a stall tactic to have more time to think of a lie. Liars typically stall and speak slower than usual all while coming up lies in their head. A persons cadence or voice tone tends to change and voice pitch gets higher when lying. This is all unknowingly to the liar.

 Do not forget about the face. Watch it carefully, there is a lot happening there. It’s the easiest way of how to tell when a person is lying. Pay close attention to the eyes. A liar really doesn’t want to make eye contact with you because the eyes tell all. Notice the smile. When smiling a person uses almost all facial muscles. When lying, a persons smile muscle just center around the mouth and just looks unnatural. It looks forced.

 A persons body language also is a giveaway. But requires some close attention. Another subconsciously movement is turning the body away from you or folding of the arms all in an effort to cover up the lie or distance from it. Some fidgeting may occur also. Nervous movements and pointing with the arms could also be away how to tell when a person is lying.

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Dealing with Manipulative People: How To Break Free From Their Manipulative Control

Posted by mallton on November 26th, 2009

Dealing with manipulative people is an unpleasant - but sometimes necessary - part of life. You can’t always avoid them because there’s almost no telling what kind of person someone is unless you get to know them better. You can have co-workers who seem so nice only to find out that they’re not who you thought they were.

Dealing with manipulative people is tough. But by equipping yourself with the tips below, you’ll be able to handle them without feeling frustrated or helpless.

1) Learn From Past Mistakes.

Saying sorry is easy. This is why you cannot always accept a person’s apology and go on living as if nothing happened.

When dealing with manipulative people, you need to be on your guard all the time. If you’ve been played with once, don’t be too quick to trust that person the second time around. That person’s apology could easily be another ploy to manipulate you into doing or feeling something you shouldn’t have to in the first place.

My advice is to accept the apology, but let that person be aware that you don’t forget easily. That should keep the manipulative person on edge - and you on your toes.

2) Practice Saying “No.”

Manipulative people choose their prey. They’ll scope around and look for someone who can’t say “no.” If you’re naturally generous, you’ll probably have a hard time refusing somebody’s request or order.

This is why you have to practice saying “no.” Do it with a friend who can act as the manipulative person. Every time someone asks you a favor, weigh the options. If it will take away precious time from you, say “no.” If they can do it by themselves, say “no.”

They need to learn how to be independent. And truth be told, so should you. Don’t expect to be rescued from every situation you get manipulated into. Learn to take charge of your life.

3) Surround Yourself With Genuine Friends.

Dealing with manipulative people is made easier when you’re backed up by your loyal friends. You know who they are. They will protect you from being talked into something that you don’t want or you don’t have to do.

Plus, friends also give you honest advice. No matter how difficult it may be to hear the truth, you know that they’re just looking out for you. Besides, manipulative people find it intimidating to go against someone with a back-up team.

Not everything in life can go smoothly. Dealing with manipulative people is part of interacting with the rest of the society. However, you don’t have to keep getting victimized over and over again. Follow these tips and learn to break free from manipulative techniques.

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